24 January 2006, 10:51 AM
@ Max: I banned your mail address as a warning for you. Kinda like one of those voodoo death masks you find on a jungle path warning people not to go any further...
Listen, we COULD tiptoe around each other in these forums but then we're gonna find that avoiding conflict will just lead to moments where you want to be part of a thread but I'm already there and you don't want to start something. And I'll feel like I can't roam freely around my own forum, which is pretty fuckin stupid seeing as I paid for the damn thing.
However, if we don't try to avoid each other and simply think "there won't be any arguements" then we're both idiots cause of course... there are gonna be arguements and it'll be just as bad as the ones in the past and it's gonna piss people off, whether they openly express their frustrations or not. And of course we'll both be pissed off by whatever happens, and right now I really don't want to be caught up in that kinda crap.
I've just come back from a nice holiday after a year of hell filled stress, so obviously I didn't want to see you back here. For those who don't know why BGCC was suddenly closed down a year ago, it's because of the many stresses in life I had at the time. Work, school, BGCC, etc, etc, etc.. it all just added up till I had to cut some part of it out and it was the web site.
I'm not saying that Max is the one who caused this, just saying that I'd rather this place doesn't become a negative aspect of my life like it seemed a year ago.
So, you don't wanna argue, I don't wanna argue... you don't want to feel like you're not welcome here, I don't wanna feel like I'm not welcome in my own forum.
We obviously have a problem.
Listen, we COULD tiptoe around each other in these forums but then we're gonna find that avoiding conflict will just lead to moments where you want to be part of a thread but I'm already there and you don't want to start something. And I'll feel like I can't roam freely around my own forum, which is pretty fuckin stupid seeing as I paid for the damn thing.
However, if we don't try to avoid each other and simply think "there won't be any arguements" then we're both idiots cause of course... there are gonna be arguements and it'll be just as bad as the ones in the past and it's gonna piss people off, whether they openly express their frustrations or not. And of course we'll both be pissed off by whatever happens, and right now I really don't want to be caught up in that kinda crap.
I've just come back from a nice holiday after a year of hell filled stress, so obviously I didn't want to see you back here. For those who don't know why BGCC was suddenly closed down a year ago, it's because of the many stresses in life I had at the time. Work, school, BGCC, etc, etc, etc.. it all just added up till I had to cut some part of it out and it was the web site.
I'm not saying that Max is the one who caused this, just saying that I'd rather this place doesn't become a negative aspect of my life like it seemed a year ago.
So, you don't wanna argue, I don't wanna argue... you don't want to feel like you're not welcome here, I don't wanna feel like I'm not welcome in my own forum.
We obviously have a problem.
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